I’m a 40 something year old wife and mum to one daughter (my pride and joy) residing in the States. I’ve been married for over 20 years to what I thought was a fairly stand up guy. In November of 2010 I discovered my husband was having an affair with his ex-girlfriend who was also married with children of her own.


His betrayal has devastated my marriage, devastated my trust and devastated my love for him. Recovery is slow going and I’m uncertain what the future holds for us as a couple. I take one day at a time as I try to sort out my feelings and my resentment which is ever growing. Not good I know.


I’m using this blog as an outlet to help deal with my emotions and hopefully I can share with others who find themselves in this same boat. I’m a shitty writer but I hope you can look past my grammar.


I would like to give accolades to Shattered Wife who’s blog Shattered By My Husband’s Affair was the inspiration for my own blog.

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